Thirdie.com
"Make friends, keep in touch, share ideas."
Blogs Post New Entry
Controversy between sexualities.
|
|
This has been bugging me for some time now, and I seem to still come up with no answers that actually put an end to my questioning.
Some straight guys, and most that I've met, get turned on by lesbians, but when it comes to gay men, they seem to immediately become repulsed and say something pointless, uncalled for, and unwanted that makes them look nothing less than a jackass. In my opinion, the entire "gay" concept will always have two sides to it: boys and girls. You can disagree with either one of them, or both, but seeing as how a lot of guys (especially lately, it seems) are telling gay men that they should die, ect.. but then turn around and have an open discussion on how hot lesbians are. Everyone is entitled to an opinion, and sure, people seem to still cling to homophobia, but why say your opinion if it's something so ludicrous? Why even bother making imbecilic comments that make someone hide a portion of who they are? << THAT is what I dont understand, so please tell me your opinions.
I dont know, maybe its an unrelated bruise to the ego. I have no idea.
Categories: Controversy/Questions
Post a Comment
Oops!
The words you entered did not match the given text. Please try again.
19 Comments
Why is it hot if they're not with you?
*GACK* either way for me.
*GACK* either way for me.
Ok, so being a lesbian, I guess you could say I have a completely different view on this subject.
Honestly, I understand where these 'jackass guys' are coming from. I personally do not find two men kissing attractive at all, but I do not find a man and a woman kissing very attractive either. This I believe is because I AM gay. I like women so I can understand this.
I know many of you do not find it right that some men think gay women are hot and gay men are disgusting, but that is just a preference and opinion, which everyone has.
But what really gets on my nerves is when someone tells me I'm hot because I'm attracted to women. Since when does sexual orientation have anything to do with finding someone attractive?? Could anyone explain this to me, tell me how this makes and since??
Honestly, I understand where these 'jackass guys' are coming from. I personally do not find two men kissing attractive at all, but I do not find a man and a woman kissing very attractive either. This I believe is because I AM gay. I like women so I can understand this.
I know many of you do not find it right that some men think gay women are hot and gay men are disgusting, but that is just a preference and opinion, which everyone has.
But what really gets on my nerves is when someone tells me I'm hot because I'm attracted to women. Since when does sexual orientation have anything to do with finding someone attractive?? Could anyone explain this to me, tell me how this makes and since??
Honestly, a lot of the time, I think that men(Not all) are turned off by gay men and turned on by gay women. And women are turned off by gay women and turned on by gay men. .~. Each sex just has a different way of voicing these opinions. And when it comes to being gay. I don't really think you care anymore. -_-;;
Ok, well maybe I read it wrong, so I'm sorry. But what I did say goes for all you others saying all guys are shallow and stuff like that.
dude. Before you start to critized and judge something, make sure you read and understand the txt clearly and fully. because for 1- i said " but that doesnt go for the "GOOD 'STRAIGHT' MEN" meaning if you are a good guy then what i said isnt true for you. Second, i never frikin said that, that doesnt apply to girls/women. so i'm sorry if i'm oh so 'sexist'
~Verronika~ says...
well....men are jus plainly hmm....IMMATURE! straight men: they dont like ever thinking about anotherrrr man because it makes them feel gay and gay makes them feel imasculine and that is like killing them. lol reasons why they like lesbians is cause well....it means they get to see 2 naked girls...and maybe/prbly be the one in between the 2. anything involving naked girls and sex are like there soul purpose for living. but that doesnt go for the GOOD 'STRAIGHT' MEN. jus the bad ones hahaa. i personally DGAF what others do. as long as they dont make a pass @ me after i tell them no, then its good.
Wow. Your a fuckin' sexist. Not all men are "Immature." There are girls out there that are exactly the same towards things of equal value, such as the gay and sex if life thing. Not all guys want to fuck you and that's it. I know more girls that are like that than guys. Topics like this piss me off, and I know I should just keep my mouth shut because I created this site and stuff but when something like this comes up I'm gonna voice what I think.
well....men are jus plainly hmm....IMMATURE! straight men: they dont like ever thinking about anotherrrr man because it makes them feel gay and gay makes them feel imasculine and that is like killing them. lol reasons why they like lesbians is cause well....it means they get to see 2 naked girls...and maybe/prbly be the one in between the 2. anything involving naked girls and sex are like there soul purpose for living. but that doesnt go for the GOOD 'STRAIGHT' MEN. jus the bad ones hahaa. i personally DGAF what others do. as long as they dont make a pass @ me after i tell them no, then its good.
I PERSONALLY THINK THATS STRAIGHT GUYS IN GENERAL DONT LIKE THINKING ABOUT ANOTHER MANS PENIS IN ANOTHER MANS ASS LOL AND THATS JUST HOW IT IS...AND LESBIANS ARE HOT DUHH DARLIN...NO BUT THATS JUST GOES TO SHOW HOW SHALLOW MEN CAN BE
i totally get you.
at the end of the day, if they think gay men are so wrong then they should also think gay women are too - it's silly to make acceptions just because the gay people at hand are women.
At any rate, gay people are gay people - it's fine. it's who they are, and there's nothing wrong with that whatsoever
sexuality shouldn't and DOESN'T define people. homophobics are silly and should really get over themselves :')
at the end of the day, if they think gay men are so wrong then they should also think gay women are too - it's silly to make acceptions just because the gay people at hand are women.
At any rate, gay people are gay people - it's fine. it's who they are, and there's nothing wrong with that whatsoever
sexuality shouldn't and DOESN'T define people. homophobics are silly and should really get over themselves :')
I'm not judgemental to anyone, especially when the own sexuality is involved. I agree with you.
taylor ( timeless ) says...
Yeah, but you dont ridicule either of them, do you?
nope, if thats the way they want to be then whatever i dont care
http://www.demoty.com/main.php/v/Other/Gay%20Test
THAT is just some of the mild crap that Im referring to.
THAT is just some of the mild crap that Im referring to.
I find lesbians attractive. Being straight, I don't enjoy gay men, but I see nothing wrong with it.
Yeah, but you dont ridicule either of them, do you?
Your welcome. I don't really have anything to add to that. Personally I don't think being gay (guy or girl) is attractive at all..
Pete Merrill (Creator/Admin.) says...
You made some good points
Thanks. : )
Categories
Recent Videos
1262 views - 1 comment
1407 views - 1 comment
1103 views - 1 comment
979 views - 0 comments
Oops!
Oops, you forgot something.